The Choice for the Single Professional

SINGLES NETWORK

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There are many reasons to join a singles organization. The obvious one being because that’s where singles go. In the long run, organizations are cheaper than bars and personals and generally a lot safer. They also give you a chance to meet a variety of singles without one-on-one pressures. They are a great place to observe yourself and others in a social environment.

You’ll find a variety of singles organizations in Denver. There are “Activity Clubs, ” “Dinner Clubs,” “Dating Services, ” “Church Groups,” and “ Dance Clubs.” “Service Groups” that raise money for the benefit of non-profit groups are a great way to meet others and make a contribution to your community. Other organizations, provide on-going workshops to help address singles’ issues. The Fisher Seminars and many local churches offers classes for divorce recovery and building successful relationship tools.

 
Ask yourself what you like to do and what type of organizations appeal to you. Many organizations do more than what is advertised. Call all the organizations that seem interesting and ask questions. Ask if you may attend an event. Talk to friends. Ask if they have ever belonged to a club. During your investigation, remember a couple of things:

1)   All organizations have success and horror stories.

2)  Membership demographics will change from year to year.

3)  The staff may change too.

Therefore, what may have been true before may not be true now. This is when you need to talk with a current member and find out what they like and what they don’t. Be objective in your observations.

Before you join any club, make sure it is in sync with your interests, values, expectations, and goals. You may want to join more than one organization; each one will have something different to offer you.

 
And when you finally make the decision, remember to be realistic with your expectations. No organization will fulfill your every need. Take charge of your experience, BE PROACTIVE.

 
If you are looking for a relationship, chances are it’s not going to happen right away. Slow down and enjoy the organization for what it is.

Joining a singles’ organization can be like tuning into the Discovery Channel. It’s an opportunity to take the time to get to know others. Remember, organizations give you a chance to meet a variety of singles without the one-on-one pressures of personal ads and dating. You’ll be able to talk with others about a variety of subjects including topics and concerns related to the 90's single.

Active participation allows you to observe yourself in interaction with others, and it gives you the chance to practice relating in new ways. You’ll have an opportunity to break out of old behavior patterns that have not worked to your advantage in the past. Membership provides opportunities to learn new skills and expand your interests and activities. While all this is going on, you’ll be having fun meeting other singles that share your same interests. An active membership in singles’ organizations allows you to open up, bring others into your life and increase your personal sphere of influence. So, what’s holding you back from beginning your investigation right now?

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Don't Get Ripped Off!
Key Questions to Ask & Remember You May Not Get an Honest answer.

1). How much does it costs, for how long? What other costs are there.
If they won't give you a price over the phone Hang Up!

2). Ask if there is a refund policy - there is no "buyers remorse" for this industry. Ask for it in writing. For most places once you signed - you're stuck.

3). How many activities are there per month and how many in your age group. Don't trust the calendar many activities get cancelled or are not really run by the organization.

4). Can you talk with current members. Ask them what they paid. Ask them about how the staff responds to questions and problems. Ask if the event leaders show up on time and if they are well informed.

5). How long has the company been in business locally and see if you can find out it had other names.

6). How many active local members and what is the ratio of men and women.

7). Ask what are members looking for?

8). Ask how they deal with inappropriate members.